When adaptation becomes the symbol of society's failure
This even lead to a silent language of warning glances exchanged between women in rooms where saying something out loud carries consequences, she explained « We have a "look" we give each other to warn a girl about a man because we are afraid to say it out loud. » An entire informal infrastructure of mutual protection, built not by institutions but by necessity, because institutions failed to build anything adequate. This is not a description of exceptional circumstances. It is a description of the baseline. She then did something that required more courage than the statement itself: she offered a personal account.
She had gone to the police with hundreds of messages from a man detailing, explicitly, how he intended to kidnap and rape her. He had boarded a flight to Antwerp. He had found her. Her team was present when he approached. She arrived at the police station with every piece of evidence in hand.They barely looked at it. They told her they could not do anything. They sent her home in tears.
This is not an anecdote about a failure of individual officers. It is a data point consistent with what parliamentary reports, victimology studies, and advocacy research have documented across jurisdictions for decades: the justice system does not perform, for victims of sexual violence and stalking, the function it claims to perform.
When conviction rates sit below one percent of actual incidents, when eighty-five percent of victims in the UK music industry alone choose not to report because they have correctly calculated the cost of doing so, the system is not failing. It is functioning exactly as its incentives predict. Lens understood this, and she asked the question that follows from it directly: « if even the authorities will not help when the evidence is in your hands, how are women supposed to feel safe in a club where the abuse is silent and invisible, and where the abuser is, more often than not, someone everyone already knows? »







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